Dear Todd Parker,

I'm in a bit of a sticky situation.

I have been dating the same guy for four years. We recently broke up because he needed 'space' and 'time,' and then we would get back together by the end of the year. We are still close, and I stay at his place, we still say we love each other, and basically do everything couples do. I love him, and I want to have a future with this guy.