You can’t pretend this doesn’t bother you. The problem is; if you show any sign that you’re angry about it at all, you will fall into a trap. Find another way to vent or you'll get a whole lot more than you bargained for.
The work situation is off the charts. If there’s nothing you can do about it, you just have to find a way to love it. With very little energy free for other things, conserve yourself and bow to the need to keep it simple for a while.
In the midst of changes like this, it’s best to roll with it. You aren’t sure about anything and neither is your partner, but the one thing you both know is that you can’t recreate the past. It’s time to let everything go if you can.
Whatever isn’t working can’t be blamed entirely on externals; you made this bed. Your current situation would make more sense if you could own up to the fact that blind faith made it hard to see the truth.
If the emotional atmosphere is thicker than usual consider it an opportunity to get to the bottom of a few things. You can avoid this or you can face it head on and save yourself a lot of trouble down the road apiece.
You can feel the imminence of change but you have no clue where your life is going. So much has healed in the past year the brand new person you have become can’t wait to see what the universe has in store for you.
Certain things need to be maintained - but not at your expense. The desire to branch out and move beyond your previous limitations makes it imperative that you give most of yourself over to these newer passions.
Don’t expect too much from yourself and don’t let others suck up your energy. You’ve got so many things going on and so much to contend with you’ll go nuts if you don’t reserve the better part of you for yourself.
It is becoming clear that something is wrong. This used to be simple, but all of a sudden it’s gotten to be too complicated or too much. The heart of the problem may have a lot to do with what you want versus what others expect.
In order to know what to keep and what to throw away, you need to figure out what matters to you. Nothing in your life will have meaning until you dispense with the stuff that keeps you apart from your purpose.
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